Hi there.
Iâve been on the fence about signing up here only to respond, but I appreciate the vibe and the discourse Iâve waded through thus far, so forgive me if this is at all awkward.
As the person responsible for the original link, I wanted to share a bit more personal context, particularly given any perspectives on âspamâ versus âdiscoverability.â
I fully recognize that a cabin in the middle of a forest is unlikely to get many visitors, especially if there isnât a trail to follow. For some people, that may matter little; maybe they like the quiet. Maybe theyâre partial to meeting people who have had to put more effort into finding you. For others, the lack of frequent visitors may be disheartening. To say thereâs a spectrum is probably reductive, but I think the key element here is understanding what you want out of your public space on the internet.
When I first created an online presence decades ago (oof), I was focused on tech and I actively sought to reach a larger audience. I became friends with people who had their own sites in similar spaces and we shared links and cross-referenced one another whenever opportunities arose. This is well before online advertising had congealed into the monster industry that exists today; connections were smaller, more nimble, and often shared in the form of little 88x31 buttons. Ah, loose tangent, sorry. The important bit here is that at the time, I wanted to broaden reach because the âsuccessâ of my site depended on people learning about it and coming back to keep up to date on the parts of tech that I cared about.
By the time I got to college, I transitioned away from tech and the page turned into an online journal. If I hadnât already owned a domain, I might have signed up for something like LiveJournal, Xanga or any of its competitors. With this shift in scope, the âsuccessâ of my site changed dramatically. Now it was no longer about strangers on the internet discovering and reading my thoughts. I put words out into the ether, vague as they often were, because I wanted my IRL friends to see them. I was too afraid or incapable of sharing many things directly, so Iâd spin something up and share them online, knowing that I had shared my URL directly with my friends and that they could read. Reaching new people didnât matter to me.
Then something happened and I disappeared for a long time. Coming back to the space, I started writing again earlier this year. Iâm still figuring out what âsuccessâ looks like now. I havenât told any of my old friends that Iâm writing again. My wife doesnât know that I have a public journal. Iâm just writing things down and posting them in a space because it feels good. That said, the idea of being seen, understood, recognized, is admittedly tantalizing. Itâs why I first took a stab at joining Mastodon and the POSSE approach, even though at the time I hadnât even heard of the term.
The problem that I experienced is that over time it felt [to me] exactly like spam. I was essentially shouting into a space âNOTICE ME NOTICE ME NOTICE ME,â and this relied on boosting the audience of people who might possibly notice. Put more simply, I needed to find more followers so that my reach would widen further. Now, I could simply focus on writing, but Iâm a sucker for gamifying things; in earnest I started thinking about ways that I could encourage viewership. I felt growing pressure and a warping of intent, such that my initial desire to start writing againâwhich occurred largely in a vacuumâbegan to twist and buckle.
This doesnât seem helpful to anyone. Not to myself, nor to the folks who I might subject to attention seeking toots. I recognize that this isnât a universal truth. Itâs simply a recognition of how I felt I was interacting with social media and how it was warping my view of what âsuccessâ is for a personal page with no real direction.
Iâm still on social media and my URL is still linked in a few places. If discoverability matters, there isnât a great deal of opportunity left beyond those places I already seeded (for example being listed on blogroll.club). Iâm okay with that, but I donât judge anyone who is positive about POSSE and its downstream effects.
If youâve made it this far, thanks for reading. The short version can be summarized as âUsing POSSE as a mechanism for engaging with social media is a net-negative for me, but that isnât true for everyone.â
All the best,
Courtney